One question a day. Deeper conversations every night.
Aperi delivers a daily question to you and your partner. Answer separately, reveal together, and discover what you never thought to ask.
Free forever plan available. No credit card required.
Works great solo too — no partner needed to start.
What's something small I do that means more to you than I probably realize?
Not just another question app
Smart underneath, simple on top. Built to help couples talk about the things that actually matter.
Questions That Go Deeper
Start easy, go deeper over time. Four depth levels take you from playful icebreakers all the way to the questions you'd never think to ask on your own. The algorithm reads your comfort and adjusts the pace, so it never feels forced or like you're going through a checklist.
Never Runs Out
Fresh questions generated continuously. You'll never run out of things to talk about. No recycled prompts, no repeats.
The Reveal Moment
You both answer before seeing each other's response. The reveal is what turns a question into a moment.
Themed Packs
Pick a pack that fits where you are. Moving In, New Parents, Long-Distance, Date Night — dozens of curated collections. Buy individually or get most packs with Premium.
Learns Your Style
Rate questions and the app learns what clicks for you two. Every question gets more personal over time.
Voice or Text
Record a voice memo when words on screen aren't enough. Hear your partner's tone, laughter, hesitation — everything text can't carry. Type when it's quick, speak when it matters.
How it works
One question a day. Answer apart, discover together — or start solo.
Get your daily question
Both of you receive the same question each evening. Thoughtfully picked by the algorithm based on where your relationship is right now.
What's something small your partner does that makes your whole day better?
Answer separately
Write or record your answer in your own time. Your partner's response stays hidden until you both submit.
When they leave little notes in my lunch bag. Makes me smile every time.
Reveal & discuss
See both answers at the same time. The surprise of your partner's perspective is what sparks the real conversation.
Your answer
When they leave little notes in my lunch bag.
Partner's answer
The way they always ask about my day first.
It learns what works
Rate each question after you discuss it. The algorithm adapts to your couple — surfacing topics you both enjoy and the depth you're ready for.
How was this question for you two?
Questions that match where you are
Four depth levels. The algorithm reads your comfort and adjusts. Never too shallow. Never too soon.
Icebreaker
Light & playful
If you could have any superpower for a day, what would it be?
Personalization that actually works
Every question you rate trains a personal model of your preferences. Five scoring signals combine to pick tomorrow's question. No generic recommendations. No repeats. No filter bubbles.
- Cold start
- First 15 questions use global popularity. After that, you're fully personalized.
- Depth progression
- Elo-based comfort tracking. Skip deep questions and it eases back. Love them and it leans in.
- Softmax sampling
- New users get variety. As your preferences solidify, you get more of what you love.
Composite Score Breakdown
Bayesian Beta distributions learn what topics resonate with you
Wilson Score (same as Reddit) ranks questions by community reception
Elo rating tracks comfort level to serve questions at the right depth
Recently added questions get a slight boost to keep content fresh
Thompson Sampling occasionally ventures into untested topics to prevent filter bubbles
Built on relationship research, powered by algorithms
Real science behind every question. Not a random deck of cards.
curated questions
across 8 categories and 4 depth levels, with new ones added weekly
scoring signals
combine to pick the right question for you — tag preferences, quality, depth fit, freshness, and exploration
ratings to personalize
that's all it takes for the algorithm to shift from global popularity to your unique taste
Frequently asked
Start your daily question habit — free
Solo or together. One question a day that learns what matters to you. Free forever plan, no credit card needed.