FunEveryday
If we had a free evening tomorrow, what would you want to do with it?
Level 1: Light
For the two of you
One question a night. Answered apart, revealed together.
Aperi asks you and your partner the same question each evening. You each answer privately, then see both answers at once. It learns what you love talking about and goes deeper over time, and on the nights one question is not enough, the whole library is open.
Free to start, for both of you.
LoveAppreciation
What is one small thing I do that instantly makes your day better?
Your answer
The way you always warm up my side of the bed and pretend you didn’t.
Their answer
When you send me a song in the middle of the afternoon that says exactly what you were thinking.
Neither of you can peek first.
A year of the two of you
The evening question is the ritual. Everything else grows around it.
Around 8pm, any weeknight
One question, chosen for the two of you
It arrives in the evening and you each answer privately. Neither of you sees anything until both answers are in, so nobody copies and nobody softens their answer to match.
It earns the deep questions
Aperi starts light and only goes deeper as you both get comfortable. You never get an intimacy interview on day one. Here is the same couple, six months apart.
- Week one
- Month oneGrowth
What is something you have changed your mind about since we met?
Level 2: Curious
- Month threeSupportNeeds
What is something you needed from me recently and did not ask for?
Level 3: Open
- Month sixThe future
What is one fear about our future you have not said out loud?
Level 4: Deep
A list of questions cannot do this
It cannot remember what you answered, it cannot wait for both of you, and it cannot tell whether you are ready for the last card yet.
Try it without downloading anything
Answer five questions about yourself, send the link to your partner, and find out how many they can actually guess. It takes about two minutes and there is nothing to sign up for.
Take the couples quizOr start with how well do you know each other?, the couples quiz, or the couples questions game.
The score
68
You know them well
They saidNailed it
Would you rather we owned a cozy bookshop together or a little beachside cafe?
The bookshop, obviously. You would last a week on a beach.
You guessed: Bookshop. She wants the cat more than the shop.
What you've probably tried
We tried them too. Something was always missing.
The Google list
- Same 36 questions for every couple on earth
- You do them once, maybe twice, then what?
- No personalization, no progression, no reason to come back
Card deck apps
- A fixed deck you shuffle past until you stop reaching for it
- No memory of what you already answered, or what you loved
- Nothing stops one of you reading the other’s answer first
- Most charge per person, so couples pay double
Built different
Aperi
- One question a day that learns your taste
- Goes deeper over time, at your pace
- Double-blind reveal: both answer before seeing each other’s
- Search the whole library by describing the moment you are in
- One subscription covers both of you
We're just getting started. Our friends and family have been using Aperi for months, and the thing they keep telling us is that they look forward to the evening question. We think you will too.
Yes. You can answer daily questions on your own and invite your partner when you are ready. Your history stays, and they see it all when they arrive.
Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
Your answer
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Their answer
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.