One question a day to actually know each other.

One question each evening that cuts through the routine. Both answer separately, then see what the other said. The conversation that follows is the one you'll remember.

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Today's Question

When was the last time I made you feel really heard?

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How it works

One question a day. Answer apart, discover together.

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Daily question card arriving in the Aperi app

You wouldn't ask your deepest fear on a first date

So why would an app? Aperi starts easy and reads your comfort before going deeper. No forced vulnerability.

Level 1

Icebreaker

Light & playful

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If you could have any superpower for a day, what would it be?

IcebreakerLevel 1

Built for couples who want more than a list

A Google list gives you 36 questions and no reason to come back. Aperi learns, adapts, and never runs out.

Starts light, gets real

Most question apps throw deep stuff at you on day one. That's awkward. Aperi starts easy and watches how you respond. When you're comfortable going deeper, it notices. When you're not, it backs off.

It learns what clicks

Rate each question and the algorithm figures out your taste. After about 15 ratings, it stops guessing and starts choosing for you.

The reveal moment

You both answer before seeing each other's response. That "wait, really?" moment when you reveal is where the real conversation starts.

Never runs out

2,000+ questions across 30 themed packs, with new ones every week. A mix of your favorites and topics you haven't tried. This isn't a card deck you finish in a weekend.

Frequently asked

No. Start solo and get a daily question to spark conversations with anyone: your partner, a date, a friend. Answer with text or a voice memo, browse themed packs, and build your personal history. Invite your partner anytime to unlock the double-blind reveal experience, where you both answer before seeing each other's response.

Yes! Solo mode gives you a daily question, voice or text notes, personal history, and full access to themed packs. The algorithm learns your preferences from day one. When your partner joins, your personalization carries over and you unlock the reveal experience together.

No pressure, no guilt. The question stays open until both of you have answered. Streaks and reminders are gentle. They nudge, they don't nag. If one of you skips a day, nothing bad happens. The algorithm just keeps learning from the questions you do engage with.

A Google list is static: same 36 questions for every couple on earth. Aperi learns what resonates with you and adjusts. It tracks your comfort level, avoids topics you dislike, and gradually introduces deeper questions as your relationship signals readiness. It's a conversation engine, not a list.

Questions range from Level 1 (icebreakers) to Level 4 (deeply vulnerable). You start light and the system watches how you rate each question. As you build comfort, it introduces deeper ones. If you hit a wall, it backs off. Think of it as a conversation that respects your pace.

Yes. Subscriptions are couple-scoped, not per-person. One of you subscribes and both partners get full access. No need to pay twice.

About five minutes: read the question, think, answer. No timer, no pressure. Some couples spend 30 seconds, others have hour-long conversations. The question is just the starting point.

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