🏡 Building a Home Together
What "home" means emotionally and what you're each picturing.
Sample Questions
“Would you rather have the perfect kitchen or the perfect bedroom, and what makes it perfect?”
“What did your childhood home get right that you want to carry into ours?”
“Which financial boundary around a home would you have a hard time compromising on, and why does it matter so much?”
From the blog
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Building self-worth that doesn't depend on your partner
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Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
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