📱 The 12 Questions
The viral relationship quiz from TikTok, but face to face instead of over text.
Sample Questions
“What kind of conversations make you naturally want to put everything down and just be fully present?”
“When you're upset, what's your first instinct: talk it out or go quiet?”
“Which topic have you brought up more than once because you didn't feel heard the first time?”
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