The couples quiz

One of you answers five questions. The other tries to guess what you said. You both get a score.

Free. No signup. Two minutes.

This quiz points at the relationship itself: what makes someone feel wanted, what they notice and never mention, what they would want said out loud more often. Compliments, attraction, commitment, and the small mechanics of affection that most couples run on instinct rather than agreement.

It works as a guessing game rather than an interview because the interesting part is not the answer, it is the miss. Being confidently wrong about what your partner needs is more useful to discover than being vaguely right, and a score makes that discovery funny instead of pointed.

Takes about two minutes each. There is no signup, no download, and nothing to install before you can play.

Questions in the couples quiz

  1. What are some simple ways you like to show love daily?
  2. What’s a song that makes you think of romance or love whenever you hear it?
  3. How do you prefer to express appreciation to someone special?
  4. What type of gift do you think most people don’t realize is meaningful?
  5. If you were to create a new love language, what would it involve?
  6. How would you design the perfect date for someone who loves surprises?
  7. If you could receive a compliment about one thing forever, what would you choose?
  8. Which expressions of love make you feel most connected?
  9. What's the quietest way I show you I care?
  10. What about the way we love each other feels uniquely ours?
  11. What's a word or phrase that you think captures what we are together?
  12. When do you feel proudest of me, even if you haven't said it out loud?
  13. What kind of surprise do you think would make for an unforgettable romantic moment?
  14. Which acts of kindness have you appreciated from a partner the most?
  15. What's a unique or unusual love language you've heard of that you find interesting?
  16. What makes you feel most appreciated in a relationship?
  17. If you could experience one fictional love story in real life, which would it be and why?
  18. What's your absolute favorite thing about me?
  19. In a world where expressing love could be done in any form, what form would you choose?
  20. What are some compliments you've received that have meant a lot to you?
  21. What qualities do you admire most in a partner and why?
  22. What's one way you've grown as a person in the last few months that you wish I acknowledged more?
  23. What's one way I supported you this year that meant more than I probably realized?
  24. Which tradition would you want us to start on our own?
  25. What did you notice about me in the first few weeks that you've never mentioned?
  26. Which decision from this year are you proudest of us for?
  27. What kind of romantic gesture do you think should make a big comeback?
  28. How do you usually describe me when you're talking to friends?
  29. How do you like to be appreciated by those you love?
  30. What's something about me that still surprises you?
  31. Which type of compliment do you think carries the most impact when given genuinely?
  32. What's something I do that makes you feel like you're home?
  33. What's the most random thing about me that you find oddly endearing?
  34. If you were writing a romance novel, what trait would your main character absolutely have to have?
  35. What would a perfect quiet day in December look like?
  36. What's a tiny daily ritual of ours that you'd miss more than you'd expect if it disappeared?
  37. What did I get right this year that I probably do not know about?
  38. What gift would tell you I had really been paying attention?
  39. What's a compliment you've wanted to give me but felt awkward saying out loud?
  40. Which compliment would you find hardest to say to my face?
  41. What's a skill or talent of mine that you think I underestimate?
  42. What types of compliments are most meaningful to you?
  43. What small act of kindness do you think is underrated in relationships?
  44. What does being appreciated mean to you in a relationship?
  45. What's a compliment you've heard in a movie that you wish someone would say to you?
  46. What do you think makes a gesture truly romantic?
  47. What's a compliment you received once that you still think about?
  48. Who's more likely to plan a surprise and then spoil it themselves?
  49. How do you like to be looked after when you are unwell?
  50. What are you learning about yourself from being with me that you didn't expect?
  51. Which compliment have you received that you have never believed?
  52. What has surprised you about me so far?
  53. If we both got dream job offers in different cities next month, how would you want us to handle that conversation?
  54. What quirky name would you give our future pup, and why?
  55. Which pace would feel right to you if there were no pressure?
  56. What is the most reckless thing you have done out of attraction?
  57. What makes me feel instantly better when I am low?
  58. What little thing do you find most attractive in someone that others might overlook?
  59. What do you want me to notice about your body that is not a criticism?
  60. What does your ideal division of household responsibilities look like? Are there specific things you carry right now that you wish were more shared between us?

These are drawn from the same collection the quiz picks from. Aperi has more than 2,700 questions in total, and the app serves one a day that fits where the two of you are.