How well do you know each other?
Answer five questions about yourself. They guess. The score is the gap.
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What is the one thing I would never throw away?
Most couples know each other's routines by heart and still miss the things underneath them. The questions here reach for the past rather than the present: childhood, first times, the trips and the moments that shaped how someone turned out. They are the questions that get skipped, because the early years usually get covered once, near the beginning, and then never again.
The format matters more than the list. One of you answers privately, the other guesses, and the score is the gap between what you assumed and what is true. That gap is where the conversation actually starts, and it is why guessing beats simply taking turns asking.
Nothing here is heavy. Every question is drawn from the lighter half of our collection, chosen because a partner could plausibly guess the answer. A question nobody could predict makes for a bad game and a worse score.
The questions in this quiz
- What's one fictional food or drink you've always wanted to try?
- What would your ideal vacation look like?
- If you could spend a year exploring any country, which one would you choose and why?
- What is a place you've always wanted to travel to, and what draws you to it?
- What's a movie or TV show you loved as a kid that you'd love to rewatch now?
- Which food has everyone tried except you?
- What's a place you've always wanted to visit but haven't yet?
- If you could live in any other era for a week, which would you choose and what would you do?
- What’s a piece of advice you received as a child that still resonates with you today?
- What song always gets you dancing, no matter where you are?
- What's the most creatively daring thing you've ever tried, and how did it turn out?
- What was the first thing you noticed about me that still crosses your mind?
- What song always makes you want to dance, no matter where you are?
- What's a funny memory from your childhood that still makes you laugh?
- What's the funniest thing that has ever happened to you on vacation?
- What destination carries a personal meaning you'd want to share with me?
- What's a song that makes you think of us every time you hear it?
- What was your very first impression of me?
- What is one adventure you dream of going on some day?
- What's the most ridiculous nickname you've ever been given and where did it originate?
- What is something most people our age have done that you never have?
- Which culture fascinates you, and what would you want to learn about it?
- What's one of the silliest things you've ever done that makes you smile when you think about it?
- What's a childhood dream you had that still makes you smile when you think about it?
- What was your favorite game to play as a child and why did you love it?
- What imaginary world did you create when you played make-believe?
- Which decade do you think had the best fashion, and what trends would you bring back?
- What was your favorite cartoon as a kid and what did you love about it?
- What is the funniest prank you've ever pulled or had pulled on you?
- Imagine you could live in any fictional universe for a week; where would you go and what would you do?
- What was your favorite childhood game and what made it special?
- What's a scent or sound that immediately makes you think of us?
- Which sport or physical activity have you never attempted?
- Where do you picture us living when the only schedule we keep is our own?
- If we could teleport to any place right this second, where are we going?
- What's the most ridiculous thing you've done to feel closer to me when we're apart?
- What did the holidays smell and sound like in your house growing up?
- Was there a particular song or music group you couldn't get enough of as a kid?
- What's the funniest misunderstanding or miscommunication we had this year?
- Which childhood nickname would mortify you to hear now?
- What was your most-loved toy or item as a child?
- If you could time-travel to any moment in our relationship and watch it from the outside, which would you pick?
- What's the meal, trip, or random evening from this year that you'd relive frame by frame?
- Which part of the season do you actually look forward to?
- What role did creativity play in your childhood, and how does it play a role now?
- Which memory do I bring up most often?
- What's an assumption you made about me early on that turned out to be completely wrong?
- Which memory of this season do you return to most?
- What is the best gift you have ever been given?
- What do you miss most about our old routine?
- When is the last time you sang to yourself or to someone else?
- What's a rule you grew up with that you thought was universal but turned out to be just your family?
- If we could relive our first date but change one thing about it, what would you change?
- If you could replay one day we've had together on an endless loop, which day?
- Which trend did you never once take part in?
- Which of your current furniture pieces would you fight to keep even if it's objectively ugly?
- What's a meal or drink that instantly teleports you back to our early dating days?
- What's an adventure or experience we kept saying we'd do together but never actually did?
- What did your parents do that you didn't understand as a kid but makes perfect sense now?
- What has surprised you about me so far?
These are drawn from the same collection the quiz picks from. Aperi has more than 2,700 questions in total, and the app serves one a day that fits where the two of you are.
After the quiz
One question a day, picked for the two of you
Aperi sends one question a day. You both answer before either of you sees the other, and the questions get deeper the longer you play.
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Questions people ask
How does the quiz work?
One of you answers five questions about yourself. You get a link, you send it to your partner, and they write what they think you said. The moment they finish, both answers appear side by side with a score out of 100.
Do we both need the app?
No. The quiz runs in the browser for both of you and nobody has to sign up, install anything or pay. The app is where the questions keep coming after the quiz is over.
How long does it take?
About two minutes each. Five questions, typed answers, no timer.
What kind of questions come up?
Questions about the years before you met: childhood, first times, the trips and the people that shaped how someone turned out. They are the questions most couples cover once and never return to.