💰 Life & Finances
Get honest about money, your habits, fears, and what financial security means to each of you.
Sample Questions
“What's a small everyday purchase that brings you way more happiness than it should?”
“If one of us wanted to make a career change that meant earning less for a few years, how would you actually feel about that?”
“Which spending habit of yours comes from an emotional need rather than a practical one?”
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