📅 Year in Review
Reflect on your year together and look ahead.
Sample Questions
“If this year were a movie genre, what would it be, and who directed it?”
“What's one way I supported you this year that meant more than I probably realized?”
“Is there something you're proud of us for surviving this year that outsiders would never know was hard?”
From the blog
What couples who stay together for 50 years know
What do couples who last 50 years actually do differently? The research reveals habits that are simpler and harder than you'd expect.
The Gottman method: what 40 years of research tells us about love
The Gottman Method distills 40 years of couples research into practical tools. What the data actually says about what makes love last.
20 questions to ask your partner every year
20 questions for couples to look back on the year, figure out where things stand, and decide what you both want from the next one.
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