🤝 Our People
The friends, family, and chosen few around your relationship, and what you two are building with them.
Sample Questions
“Which of our friends feels like they belong to both of us now, and how did that happen?”
“What role do you naturally take when we walk into a room full of people together?”
“Where do I fill a role in your life that a friend or community once filled, and how does that sit with you?”
From the blog
People-pleasing in relationships: when being "nice" does damage
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The science behind 36 questions that make people fall in love
Arthur Aron's study created deep intimacy between strangers in under an hour using structured questions. How the science works and what came after.
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Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
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