🩹 After the Argument
For the hours after a fight. Questions that help you repair rather than relitigate.
Sample Questions
“What do you need from me in the next ten minutes?”
“How can we tell when we have actually finished a fight?”
“What do you need to hear from me before we close this?”
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Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
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