🌍 Big Life Decisions
Talk through how you make major choices together and what you each need to feel heard.
Sample Questions
“What's a decision you made purely on gut feeling that turned out to be exactly right?”
“How do you work best when something significant needs to be decided, does space and time help you get there, or does moving quickly feel more natural to you?”
“How did your family handle major disagreements when you were growing up, and what did that teach you about resolving conflicts?”
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Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.