👋 Getting to Know You
The essentials for early-stage connection.
Sample Questions
“What's a childhood rule from your house that you thought was universal until you realized it wasn't?”
“What does a perfect Sunday look like for you, from waking up to falling asleep?”
“Which value would you never compromise on in a relationship, even if everything else was perfect?”
From the blog
How well do you know me? 35 questions to test it (and actually learn something)
35 "how well do you know me" questions for couples, friends, and family. A simple way to play, plus what to do when someone gets one wrong.
50 questions to ask before getting married
50 questions to ask before getting married: values, kids, money, conflict, intimacy, and the ones most couples skip until it's too late.
What couples married 20+ years want you to know
Lessons from couples who've stayed together 20+ years, backed by research from Pillemer, Wallerstein, and Gottman.
Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.