🌱 The First Month
For brand new couples. The questions that move you past small talk without moving too fast.
Sample Questions
“Which topic makes you talk faster than usual?”
“How do you tend to act when you are stressed?”
“What would make you feel safe enough to be fully yourself with me?”
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Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.