🧭 Where Is This Going
The define-the-relationship talk, broken into questions you can actually ask.
Sample Questions
“What would you want to be true in six months?”
“What are you still unsure about, and is that about me or about timing?”
“What are you actually asking me, underneath all of this?”
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