🧭 Where Is This Going
The define-the-relationship talk, broken into questions you can actually ask.
Sample Questions
“What would you call this if someone asked you today?”
“Which fear stops you from asking me directly?”
“Which truth about where you stand have you been softening?”
From the blog
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Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
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