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Questions for couples starting fresh or beginning again.
Sample Questions
“What's the most surprisingly useful piece of baby gear, and what was the biggest waste of money?”
“How do you feel about how we've divided the invisible labor: the mental load of tracking feeds, appointments, supplies?”
“Is there a fear about your ability as a parent that you haven't said out loud because saying it makes it feel more real?”
From the blog
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When your partner shuts down mid-argument, it's usually not a choice. Why stonewalling happens, what's going on physically, and how to break it.
Limerence: when new love feels like obsession
What limerence actually is, how it differs from love, why your brain acts like it has OCD, and what happens when it wears off.
Blended families: 40 questions to help you build something new
Blended families don't run on the same rules as first families. These 40 questions help you and your partner align before the hard stuff hits.
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