👨👩👧 Family Blueprints
Talk about parenting styles, roles, and the family culture you want to build.
Sample Questions
“What was the unspoken rule at your family's dinner table that everyone just knew?”
“Is there something your parents were surprisingly good at as a couple that you didn't appreciate until you were in your own relationship?”
“What part of your parents' relationship dynamic do you catch yourself recreating, even when you swore you wouldn't?”
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