👶 Starting a Family
The real conversations about readiness, parenting values, and what this change means for you both.
Sample Questions
“If your future kid wrote a memoir about their childhood, what would the chapter about you be called?”
“How much involvement do you want from extended family in raising our kids, and where's the boundary?”
“How would you want us to handle it if one of us is struggling with parenthood and the other seems to be thriving?”
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