🙏 The Gratitude Deck
Express appreciation and celebrate what you love about each other.
Sample Questions
“What quality of mine do your friends or family mention most when I'm not around?”
“What have you learned from me without me ever explicitly teaching it?”
“What's the most generous interpretation you've ever chosen to give me when you could have assumed something far less kind?”
From the blog
The science of gratitude in relationships
Gratitude in relationships goes far beyond politeness. Research shows it's a relationship maintenance mechanism, when practiced right.
Stop keeping score in your relationship
Why you keep score, why happy couples do not, and how to shift from tracking fairness to building gratitude.
Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.