🎓 Personal Growth & Change
For couples where one or both of you are changing fast, and want to grow together, not apart.
Sample Questions
“What's a phase you went through that you look back on with a mix of cringe and gratitude?”
“How has your definition of success changed in the last few years, and what caused the shift?”
“What lesson did you learn the hard way that you wish you could've learned gently?”
From the blog
Why personal growth sometimes threatens your relationship
When one partner grows, the relationship system gets disrupted. Why that happens and how to handle it.
Communication in marriage: how the years change the conversation
Communication in marriage erodes through efficiency, not conflict. What the years change, which patterns predict real trouble, and what daily practice looks like.
The 6-second kiss: why this small habit changes everything
Gottman's 6-second kiss rule is the smallest habit change with the biggest payoff. Here's the science behind it and how to start.
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Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.