📵 Screens Down, Eyes Up
Disconnect from devices and reconnect with each other.
Sample Questions
“If your phone could only do three things (calls, texts, and one other feature) what would you keep?”
“What have you learned about me through social media that you wouldn't have known otherwise, and how did it feel?”
“When you see me scrolling and I don't notice you watching, what goes through your mind honestly?”
From the blog
What is stonewalling, and what to do when your partner shuts down
When your partner shuts down mid-argument, it's usually not a choice. Why stonewalling happens, what's going on physically, and how to break it.
Lack of communication in a relationship is rarely a skills problem
Lack of communication in a relationship: what the breakdown looks like in practice, what causes it (rarely skills), and the scripts that rebuild it.
Why texting is ruining your relationship communication
How texting strips context from conversations, escalates conflict, and what research says about when to put the phone down.
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Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.