Dating
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⚡ The Spark Check
Check in on attraction, romance, and chemistry.
24 questions24 answersCompleted by 1 couple
Sample Questions
Light
“When you think about texting me, what's the feeling: excited, comfortable, or obligated?”
Personal
“What's a doubt you've had about us that you've worked through, or are still working through?”
Vulnerable
“What would make you say 'I'm all in' from genuine certainty, with no pressure involved?”
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