⚡ The Spark Check
Check in on attraction, romance, and chemistry.
Sample Questions
“What about us made you laugh when you thought about it later?”
“What have you wanted to say to me but not found the right moment for?”
“What scares you about how much you might feel for me?”
From the blog
The weekly relationship check-in: 15 questions to ask every Sunday
15 questions to ask your partner every Sunday. Based on Gottman research, takes about 15 minutes, and keeps small issues from becoming big ones.
20 anniversary questions to reflect on your year together
20 anniversary questions for couples to reflect on the past year, check in on the present, and set intentions for the year ahead.
The Sunday meeting: a 20-minute weekly ritual that prevents most fights
A 20-minute weekly check-in that covers logistics, feelings, and appreciation. Prevents the slow buildup that causes most couple fights.
Where do you feel most at home with me?
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
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