⚡ The Spark Check
Check in on attraction, romance, and chemistry.
Sample Questions
“If this were a movie, what genre would our story be so far?”
“What have you wanted to say to me but not found the right moment for?”
“What scares you about how much you might feel for me?”
From the blog
Check-in questions for couples: daily, weekly, monthly, yearly
Check-in questions for couples sorted by cadence: daily two-minute rounds, weekly check-ins, monthly resets, and the annual review, each with a short script.
The weekly relationship check-in: 15 questions to ask every Sunday
15 questions to ask your partner every Sunday. Based on Gottman research, takes about 15 minutes, and keeps small issues from becoming big ones.
Planning a date night that doesn't suck
Most date nights are the same restaurant, same conversation, same phone-checking. A research-backed system for dates you'll actually remember.
Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.