🌙 After Dark
Intimate questions for when the lights go low.
Sample Questions
“When did you last feel like I truly saw you and wanted you? What did I do that made you feel that way?”
“Is there something about the way we were intimate with each other in the beginning of our relationship that you wish we could find our way back to?”
“Has something shifted in what you need from intimacy, and is there something you'd want me to understand about where you are now?”
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