🕯️ Intimacy After Kids
Rebuilding desire when your bodies, time, and attention already belong to someone else.
Sample Questions
“Where does most of our closeness happen now, outside the bedroom or in it?”
“What would rebuilding this look like if we were patient about it?”
“What do you need to believe about us to feel wanted again?”
From the blog
Rebuilding intimacy after a dry spell
Dry spells happen to most couples. The shame spiral makes them worse. Here's a research-backed path from sensate focus to responsive desire.
Why your relationship needs both emotional and physical intimacy
Emotional and physical intimacy aren't the same thing, but they feed each other. Why most couples are lopsided and how to fix it.
Emotional intimacy: what it means and how to build it
Emotional intimacy isn't about being nice. It's mutual vulnerability plus responsiveness, and you can build it on purpose. Eight ways to start.
Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.