🛫 Long Distance Love
Stay close when you're far apart.
Sample Questions
“If you had to send me a care package with exactly five items that represent how you're feeling right now, what's in it?”
“Is there something happening in your local life that you've downplayed because you didn't want me to feel left out?”
“Have you ever felt jealous of someone in my local life? Not romantically, but jealous that they get my physical presence and you don't.”
From the blog
What research says about long-distance relationships
Long-distance relationships get a bad reputation, but the research disagrees. What actually keeps couples connected across distance.
The long-distance relationship question ritual
Long-distance couples lose shared daily experience first. A daily question ritual puts some of that overlap back. One that works and why.
Oxytocin, dopamine, and the chemistry of long-term love
The neurochemical shift from early passion to long-term bonding, and why some couples keep the spark while most lose it.
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