💪 Uncomfortable but Healthy
Courageous questions that create space for honesty, framed with care and compassion.
Sample Questions
“Where have you quietly shaped yourself to fit what you think I need?”
“How do I show up with other people in a way you wish you got more of?”
“What kind of closeness do you long for that feels different from what we have now?”
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Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
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