RelationshipsScience
What couples who stay together for 50 years know
What do couples who last 50 years actually do differently? The research reveals habits that are simpler and harder than you'd expect.
12 min
Blog
Research, insights, and ideas for couples who want to go deeper.
PsychologyRelationships
The 7 types of love: from ancient Greece to modern psychology
Love isn't one thing. From Sternberg's triangular theory to ancient Greek categories, here are the types of love and which ones actually last.
11 min
RelationshipsPsychology
What is a healthy relationship? 15 signs according to research
Healthy relationships aren't conflict-free. Here are 15 research-backed signs that distinguish thriving couples from merely comfortable ones.
10 min
RelationshipsPsychology
Maintaining your identity inside a relationship
Losing yourself in a relationship is enmeshment, not love. How to stay close without disappearing.
11 min
RelationshipsCommunication
What research says about long-distance relationships
Long-distance relationships get a bad reputation, but the research disagrees. What actually keeps couples connected across distance.
9 min
Product
Aperi is now on the App Store
Aperi is available as a native iOS app. Push notifications, widgets, and the full experience in your pocket. Here's what's new and what's next.
2 min
HabitsRelationships
Evening rituals for couples: how to end the day connected
Eight evening rituals backed by research to help couples transition from work mode to connection. Specific how-tos included.
11 min
RelationshipsTechnology
6 best Paired alternatives for couples in 2026
Looking for a Paired alternative? We compared 6 couple apps on pricing, features, and what real users say. Some are cheaper, some are smarter.
11 min
QuestionsHabits
A 30-day couples journal for deeper connection
A 30-day couples journaling practice with daily prompts. Based on Pennebaker's expressive writing research.
11 min
QuestionsRelationships
Blended families: 40 questions to help you build something new
Blended families don't run on the same rules as first families. These 40 questions help you and your partner align before the hard stuff hits.
10 min
RelationshipsCommunication
Surviving in-law relationships
In-law conflict isn't personal; it's structural. How to set boundaries as a couple and protect your relationship.
11 min
RelationshipsCommunication
Setting digital boundaries in your relationship
Phubbing, doomscrolling, and Instagram comparisons are eroding your relationship. How to set digital boundaries that actually stick.
11 min
RelationshipsTechnology
Best daily question apps for couples in 2026
We researched 8 daily question apps for couples, comparing features, pricing, and real user feedback. Which ones are actually worth your time.
15 min
RelationshipsPsychology
ADHD and relationships: what both partners need to know
ADHD doesn't just affect focus. It reshapes relationship dynamics in ways both partners need to understand to stop the blame cycle.
11 min
PsychologyRelationships
Why most relationship advice is wrong
Much of what we believe about relationships is based on intuition, not evidence. Here's what longitudinal research actually shows.
11 min
PsychologyRelationships
The science of gratitude in relationships
Gratitude in relationships goes far beyond politeness. Research shows it's a relationship maintenance mechanism, when practiced right.
12 min