🕊️ Grieving Together
Talk about loss, grief, and healing as a couple.
Sample Questions
“What's the most unhelpful thing someone has said to you about your loss, and what did you wish they'd said instead?”
“What comfort food or drink has become your grief ritual, the thing you reach for on the hardest days?”
“Are you grieving the same loss or different versions of it, and have you talked about that difference?”
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