🪞 How Well Do We Listen?
Questions about hearing each other, saying what you need, and noticing what goes unsaid. Inspired by 40 years of relationship research.
Sample Questions
“How would you describe me to someone if they asked about us?”
“What about me lowkey annoys you?”
“What about your experience do you think I underestimate?”
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Tonight's question
Where do you feel most at home with me?
The kitchen, when you are cooking and I am useless nearby.
Anywhere, honestly. Airports included.
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.