🌉 Conflict to Connection
Turn disagreements into deeper understanding.
Sample Questions
“Is there something small that annoys you about me that you've decided isn't worth a conversation?”
“What does my face or body language do right before I get defensive, and do you think I'm aware of it?”
“When I raise my voice or get intense, what happens inside you, and is it a reaction to me or to something older?”
From the blog
Why you always fight about the same things
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Evening rituals for couples: how to end the day connected
Eight evening rituals backed by research to help couples transition from work mode to connection. Specific how-tos included.
12 rules for fighting fair
Conflict isn't the problem; how you fight is. Twelve research-backed rules for fighting fair, from soft startups to repair attempts.
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