🌉 Conflict to Connection
Turn disagreements into deeper understanding.
Sample Questions
“What small thing annoys you about me that you've decided isn't worth a conversation?”
“What does my face or body language do right before I get defensive, and do you think I'm aware of it?”
“When I raise my voice or get intense, what happens inside you, and is it a reaction to me or to something older?”
From the blog
Why you always fight about the same things
69% of couple conflicts are perpetual. Here's why the dishes fight is never about the dishes, and how to stop the loop.
Evening rituals for couples: how to end the day connected
Eight evening rituals backed by research to help couples transition from work mode to connection. Specific how-tos included.
12 rules for fighting fair
Conflict isn't the problem; how you fight is. Twelve research-backed rules for fighting fair, from soft startups to repair attempts.
Where do you feel most at home with me?
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
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