RelationshipsLong-Term
What couples married 20+ years want you to know
Lessons from couples who've stayed together 20+ years, backed by research from Pillemer, Wallerstein, and Gottman.
11 min
Relationships
164 articles on relationships.
QuestionsRelationships
165 fun questions to ask your partner
165 fun questions to ask your partner, grouped by mood: everyday fun, hypotheticals, favorites and firsts, travel, about us, and the slightly ridiculous.
14 min
RelationshipsCommunication
Supporting your partner through job loss
Job loss is an identity crisis as much as a financial one. How to support your partner without fixing, pressuring, or creating a power imbalance.
12 min
RelationshipsPsychology
Grieving together without growing apart
Partners often grieve differently and asynchronously. How to support each other through loss without losing your connection.
12 min
RelationshipsMilestones
The first year of marriage: what nobody tells you
The first year of marriage is harder than the wedding industry admits. Research on newlywed disillusionment and what year-one couples can do about it.
11 min
RelationshipsLong-Term
How retirement changes your relationship
Retirement changes everything about your relationship dynamic. Research on what goes wrong, what goes right, and how to plan together.
12 min
RelationshipsLong-Term
Relationship advice for your 40s and beyond
Your 40s bring a relationship shift from building to evaluating. Here's what the research says about midlife love, authenticity, and the second act.
10 min
RelationshipsMilestones
Relationship advice for your 30s: the decade that tests everything
Your 30s pile career, kids, money, and drift into one decade. Here's how to keep your relationship from becoming collateral damage.
12 min
RelationshipsDating
Relationship advice for your 20s
Your 20s are when you learn how to be in a relationship. Here's what the research says about building the skills that matter.
12 min
RelationshipsLong-Term
Rediscovering your partner after the kids leave
When the kids leave, some couples fall apart and others come alive. The difference isn't luck. It's what happened in the years before.
12 min
DatingRelationships
Dating again after divorce
There's no perfect timeline for dating after divorce. But there is a difference between being ready and just being lonely.
12 min
RelationshipsCommunication
Keeping your relationship strong during a career change
Career changes are identity crises. Here's how to protect your relationship when one partner's entire sense of self is shifting.
12 min
QuestionsMilestones
30 questions to ask before having kids
30 questions every couple should discuss before having kids, covering motivations, logistics, money, relationship impact, and contingencies.
12 min
QuestionsRelationships
20 anniversary questions to reflect on your year together
20 anniversary questions for couples to reflect on the past year, check in on the present, and set intentions for the year ahead.
10 min
QuestionsFun
40 "would you rather" questions for couples
40 Would You Rather questions for couples, from ridiculous hypotheticals to real value trade-offs. The explanations matter more than the answers.
9 min