RelationshipsPsychology
Grieving together without growing apart
Partners often grieve differently and asynchronously. How to support each other through loss without losing your connection.
12 min
Blog
Research, insights, and ideas for couples who want to go deeper.
RelationshipsLong-Term
How retirement changes your relationship
Retirement changes everything about your relationship dynamic. Research on what goes wrong, what goes right, and how to plan together.
12 min
RelationshipsLong-Term
Relationship advice for your 40s and beyond
Your 40s bring a relationship shift from building to evaluating. Here's what the research says about midlife love, authenticity, and the second act.
10 min
RelationshipsMilestones
Relationship advice for your 30s: the decade that tests everything
Your 30s pile career, kids, money, and drift into one decade. Here's how to keep your relationship from becoming collateral damage.
12 min
RelationshipsDating
Relationship advice for your 20s
Your 20s are when you learn how to be in a relationship. Here's what the research says about building the skills that matter.
12 min
RelationshipsLong-Term
Rediscovering your partner after the kids leave
When the kids leave, some couples fall apart and others come alive. The difference isn't luck. It's what happened in the years before.
12 min
DatingRelationships
Dating again after divorce
There's no perfect timeline for dating after divorce. But there is a difference between being ready and just being lonely.
12 min
RelationshipsCommunication
Keeping your relationship strong during a career change
Career changes are identity crises. Here's how to protect your relationship when one partner's entire sense of self is shifting.
12 min
QuestionsMilestones
30 questions to ask before having kids
30 questions every couple should discuss before having kids, covering motivations, logistics, money, relationship impact, and contingencies.
12 min
QuestionsRelationships
20 anniversary questions to reflect on your year together
20 anniversary questions for couples to reflect on the past year, check in on the present, and set intentions for the year ahead.
10 min
QuestionsFun
40 "would you rather" questions for couples
40 Would You Rather questions for couples, from ridiculous hypotheticals to real value trade-offs. The explanations matter more than the answers.
9 min
CommunicationRelationships
The Sunday meeting: a 20-minute weekly ritual that prevents most fights
A 20-minute weekly check-in that covers logistics, feelings, and appreciation. Prevents the slow buildup that causes most couple fights.
10 min
QuestionsRelationships
Questions for couples who feel stuck
30 questions for couples who feel stuck, organized by difficulty. Start with safe questions and work toward the things you have been avoiding.
10 min
QuestionsPsychology
Questions to ask your partner about their childhood
35 questions to ask your partner about their childhood, from happy memories to family dynamics. Plus tips on how to listen well when the answers get heavy.
9 min
QuestionsFun
40 questions for a road trip
40 road trip conversation starters organized from light to deep. Let the miles do the work.
9 min
QuestionsRelationships
50 questions for couples in long-term relationships
50 questions designed for couples who have been together for years. Go deeper than you think you already have.
10 min